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Have you ever tried to make a balloon banner? You know, the fancy pinterest-perfect ones? This baby shark themed birthday party was the first time I tried to make one; key word tried. They are incredibly difficult to make. Even with a balloon arch decorating strip that provides a template to theoretically make the process easier, it's really hard and takes a long, long time. Needless to say, I think I will be ordering pre-made ones in the future.

I ordered an electric balloon pump to expedite the inflating process- blowing up over 100 balloons is a challenge in and of itself. Given the baby shark theme, I went with shades of blue and silver for the balloons and general decor. To add further variety to the balloon banner, we inflated the balloons in varying sizes.

 

We placed one of the balloon banners along a bannister. Below the banner, we added more balloons spelling the birthday kid's name and "shark" as found here. Lastly, we cut segments of foil curtains and added them to the staircase.



To make things easier, I purchased a baby shark themed decor pack online. This came with a good amount of things that we used mostly for the photo backdrop where the cake and pictures would be. I added a 12 month photo banner for a personal touch. The balloon banner was placed on top, along with fabric and foil curtains on a metal adjustable backdrop stand.



Totally worth staying up until 2 AM for (really, I'm not being sarcastic).

baby shark themed party

Tuesday, September 21, 2021


While the list of celebrations COVID-19 has ruined could go on and on (or, rather, the lack of proper public health measure implementation that could have meant things would be better by now), it's also meant finding new meaning in a lot of these experiences. Although it meant not being able to throw the baby shower I would have liked for family, it did give us an opportunity to make things more intimate in an unexpected way. A virtual baby shower does not sound as fun as an in-person one, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have to be. The cons are obvious, but the pros can mean more flexibility (more guests can make it virtually than in person) and less party-planning hoops to jump through. With more time to actually shower and celebrate the parents-to-be, a virtual baby shower can end up being a really warm and tender event. 

Don't believe me? I don't blame you. Read on.
 

For the invites, Paperless Post is the way to go- no-contact and endless options! The shower was donut themed, so I went for an invite with sprinkles. I tried to change things up and not go with the traditional pink color theme for baby girls, so the color scheme was pastel multicolor. Both families were instructed to wear pastel colors, while the parents-to-be wore pink. 

The three things you really need for a virtual baby shower are a backdrop for your virtual platform, said platform, and games. We used Zoom which proved to be more challenging than anticipated (coordinating a crowd is no easy feat and I now have even more respect for teachers), so I recommend familiarizing yourself with group functions on the platform before the event. The games should be ones that are easy to explain and relatively simple so that your guests can follow along and engage without getting confused or caught up in technical difficulties. The decor just needs to be a large backdrop for the virtual platform and for photos. You could really even just go with a green screen and use an image as your background if you're crunched for time and resources. We drove up to visit the parents-to-be for the weekend and hosted the virtual baby shower out of their apartment, so we decorated it.


A large part of the decor came from a donut themed decor pack, which was very convenient. It included the balloons, wall sprinkles, "sprinkled with love" banner, decorative hanging spheres and lanterns, and donut cut outs while I used to decorate the table. It also included some mylar donut-shaped balloons which I sadly forgot about. The metallic foil curtains were purchased separately and added more dimension to the backdrop (plus, I'm a sucker for foil curtains). The custom pink "baby ____" banner was purchased from Etsy and featured the baby's last name (the couple is keeping the first name a surprise!). The baby shower bear balloon was a last minute pick-up I got from Party City while out inflating the other balloons. 



Feeding a crowd and menu-planning is another thing you don't have to worry about with a virtual baby shower. We had donuts from Kane's Donuts to keep with the donut theme. The donut toppers were special touches for the treats at the shower. After the shower, we ordered in Carmelina's for dinner. 



We ended up playing three games. For the first, named Glazed and Confused, we had collected 4-5 childhood anecdotes and memories of each of the parents-to-be from family beforehand. We then shared the anecdotes while guests guessed whose memory it was. It was a funny way for family to reminisce on when the parents-to-be were kids themselves and for guests to hear the stories.



For the second game, named Whoa Baby, guests were presented with a Powerpoint through the screenshare function on Zoom. Each slide featured a movie or song that included the word "baby" and guests had to fill in the blanks (for example, "Baby" by Justin ______). Answers were only counted if entered through the chat and with the correct spelling. This way, you didn't have chaos with everyone yelling at the same time and a running record of who said the right answer first. For the last game, we played the traditional game of guessing the mother-to-be's belly size. Guests entered their guesses in the chat and we confirmed with a measuring tape.

After the shower and before dinner, we took advantage of the wonderful weather and afternoon glow and took photos outside (with a few photos of the parents-to-be wearing masks, of course).

sprinkled with love: a virtual baby shower

Wednesday, October 14, 2020


For our last full day in Croatia, and first/only full day in Dubrovnik, we stayed at Villa Glavić Dubrovnik. It was our splurge lodging for the trip and did not disappoint. Following a good night's rest after the intense drive from Bosnia the night before, we felt refreshed and ready to explore. We started with breakfast at the hotel overlooking the Adriatic Sea. After eating, we walked around the large property, taking in the sights.  

The pool area of Villa Glavić

One of the Villa's (closed) dining areas

Closer to mid-day, we walked along the coast and headed into the Old City (about a 10 minute walk). This UNESCO World Heritage Site is one of the world's most well preserved medieval cities, and you don't have to be a history buff to appreciate the amazing architecture. We quickly found an entry point onto the walls of the old city, which separate the old city from newer parts of it. From there, we walked atop the city walls and looked down into the Old City. 

Cutting through the beach to get to the Old City


Most of the characteristic bright orange terra cotta roofing in the Old City was actually replaced after the Croatian Independence War in 1990 following destruction of a large part of the area and almost 70% of the roofing. There were a few buildings with older brownish terra cotta that had actually been preserved from before the War and seige by the Yugoslav People's Army. The replacement tiles were constructed in and shipped from Toulouse, France to Dubrovnik during reconstruction in the 90's. 

Fort Lovrijenac or "Dubrovnik's Gibraltar" from inside the walls

For Lovijenac and part of the coast

Housing in the Old City

After walking around the Old City, we briefly stopped to get some lemonade to cool down. As hot as the afternoon had gotten, the sea was still just too cold to swim in. We grabbed an early dinner and called it a day so we could get a good night's rest before driving up the Adriatic coast and back to Zagreb, where we would be flying out of. Just prior to leaving the next morning, we decided we couldn't leave without taking a swim in the sea, albeit an incredibly icy one. After hardly an hour at the beach, we called it quits and hopped into the car, sopping wet (no towels), and tired but happy!

The gorgeous Adriatic Sea



croatia 2018: dubrovnik

Friday, August 14, 2020


I started this commissioned piece for a friend a while ago, but took quite some time off before getting back to it. Art, and painting especially, is one of those things that I struggle to force myself to do if I don't feel like doing it. The moment it starts to feel like "work", I immediately notice a dip in both my effort and the resulting quality of what I'm working on. I've realized it's one of the reasons why it's hard for me to give an estimated completion date for many of these commissioned pieces- it honestly just depends on how I'm feeling. That said, I did want to complete this before our move (hence the moving boxes in the background), but I made sure to allow plenty of time to start working on it before then. 

The early stages

This was my first time painting fur. I've usually used Prismacolor colored pencils and found them much easier to use, so trying to do something similar with paint involved a lot of layers and experimenting. An additional challenge with this piece was trying to find a good balance between a "realistic" piece but still something fitting for a nursery (since that was the final destination for this)- at one point my biggest concern was making sure the otters didn't spook the baby. Adding slight smiles to the otters helped (atleast I like to think).



For the background, I opted for something simple with various shades of blue. I added the Van Gogh-esque style to make the water seem more dynamic and dimensional, but didn't do that for the whole background since I didn't want the water to become the focal point and overtake the otters. 




The final product

sea otter painting

Monday, April 13, 2020

After leaving El Yunque, we drove to our next destination and hotel: El Conquistador Resort in Fajardo. Neither H nor I are super into the idea of an all-inclusive sort of place as it feels a bit restrictive, not to mention it's usually pretty pricey. However, given how last minute the trip was booked, El Conquistador was largely the only place still available. Since the hurricanes hit Fajardo pretty badly, much of the resort was closed and still under reconstruction, but this also meant significantly lower-than-usual prices. Another positive to the situation was a largely empty resort; less people/traffic = less noise.

Outside the main lobby

View from the front of the hotel onlooking the property/golf course

We wanted to take our time in Fajardo pretty slowly, especially since I anticipated we would be tired from the previous day at El Yunque. Our rough plan for the day included food, the famous Fajardo beaches, and a bioluminescent bay tour in the evening at Laguna Grande (technically a lagoon, not a bay). Unfortunately, the whole not-planning-things-out-in-time got in the way and we weren't able to find a bio bay tour during our time in PR- the tours were booked atleast a week and a half out. Although most of the images of bio bays available online are significantly enhanced, it was still something I wish we hadn't missed out on. In retrospect, I probably would've sprung for the bay in Vieques. In 2017, Mosquito Bay in Vieques was already known to be the brightest in the world, but after the hurricanes, the population of dinoflagellates increased significantly.

Since our evening had freed up, we moved through the day even slower and started with a late brunch at Las Vistas Cafe. The outdoor cafe had amazing views of the town, as well was fantastic fruit. The owner gave us a complimentary bowl of fresh fruits from her garden, adding that the mango tree had not produced fruit for over a year after the hurricane, until now. 

Fruit bowl with mango from the previously-dormant mango tree

Fell in love with this flowering flora that lined a driveway

After breakfast, it only felt appropriate to make our way over to the beach. We picked Seven Seas beach and were able to easily find street parking. We found a spot on the shore, set down our towels, and spent most of the afternoon reading, in the water, and just zoning out (mostly me, H actually read). There were public restrooms with showers available after purchasing a $1 restroom pass. 

Seven Seas beach in Fajardo

Post-swim reading

We left the beach around sunset and in pursuit of dinner. Probably my favorite meal of our trip, La Estacion did not disappoint. I was not expecting to find a BBQ place in PR, much less try a new type of BBQ. La Estacion specializes in "Nuyorican BBQ", which mixes traditional BBQ with Caribbean flavors. The result is as phenomenal as it sounds. H went for the brisket, and I ordered the local fish fry special (Red Snapper).

Nuyorican style brisket

Local fish fry

An unexpected but welcomed dinner guest

We called it a night early and headed back to the hotel with plans to return to San Juan in the morning, hoping to explore the city more.

puerto rico 2019: fajardo

Saturday, March 28, 2020

Day 2 in PR was one I was super excited about since we would be making the (short) drive east to El Yunque National Forest. Growing up, my family did a lot of road trips, a lot of which included trips to national forests. Over the years I've tried to make it a point to head to one if I find myself near one on a trip, and our trip to PR was no different. This was especially exciting since it was my first trip to a tropical rain forest. Though I've been to other rain forests within the system (including parts of Olympic National Park in Washington State), El Yunque is the only tropical rain forest in the US national park system. Though parts of the park are still closed for recovery from the hurricanes a couple of years ago, a good part of the park is still open.

The view from the parking lot where we waited to be let in, with Fajardo's waters in the background

Down the road from the waiting lot

The drive from our hotel in San Juan to the forest was hardly 45 minutes and pretty straight forward. We were mindblown at how a 45 minute drive could mean the difference between going from the beach and sea level to 1,000+ ft. By the time we got to the park, it was close to noon and there was a waiting line to get in. We took our rental car and were planning to drive through the forest, stopping where we saw a trail and place to park, which seemed to be how most of the visitors did it. The rangers at the entry point informed us that since the hurricanes and recovery efforts, they have placed a cap on how many people can be in the park at once. There are usually two waves of when they let cars in: in the early mornings, and around 1:30 to 2 pm, which is the category we fell into. When the capacity is capped, the park temporarily closes. Had we planned a bit better, we would have aimed for the earlier time, but it's not like there wasn't much to see even as we waited to be let in. FYI, they don't do reservations- it's all first come first serve! There are travel packages and tour buses leaving from various surrounding cities for day trips to the forest, but very much not necessary. 



The weather was very much humid and hot (on par for a tropical rain forest), with multiple 1-2 minute rain showers that were scattered throughout our trip. We didn't run into mosquitos as I was expecting, but I'm glad we had prepared for them just in case. I wore athleisure (read: yoga pants and a t-shirt), with a light rain jacket and sneakers. A rain jacket is clutch since it allows you to enjoy the views without an umbrella blocking your (and everyone else's views). 

Along the drive, we stopped by Yokahú Tower. The Tower had a small gift shop at the bottom, with stairs leading to the top. Trekkable for someone who rarely works out, and worth the views! The tower also has viewing areas on the way up.

Rainfall as seen from Yokahú Tower

The top of the Tower


The Yokahú Tower parking lot 

One of many waterfalls directly off the road

Although we had brought snacks, we weren't anticipating waiting to get into the park, which extended our time in the park by quite a bit. By later afternoon, we had gotten hungry and happened to find a small cafe within the park. By the time we finished eating, I noticed we'd had a lunch guest just diagonally overhead (see below). Also something to be prepared for ahead of time, though we saw multiple restrooms, they were all closed for post-hurricane renovations. (Un)fortunately, port-a-potties were the alternative. Bring sanitizer, wipes, and TP!

Previously mentioned lunch guest, snoozing 

Found a small trail near the cafe for a post-lunch walk

Gigantic tree snail

We spent probably a total of 3-4 hours once we got into the actual park. Though I feel it was an adequate amount of time, you could very easily spend more. We didn't get to the end of the roads that were still open, but opted to head out when we did since I was getting tired. We headed back down the mountain and drove another 30-45 minutes to our next destination- the beach town of Fajardo.

puerto rico 2019: el yunque rainforest

Thursday, March 26, 2020

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